(((HUGS))) donna, this is going to be a very tough year, isn't it?

I had the holiday schedule made out in the summer. I swear, in a weird way it gave me some control over something, I guess, and H agreed to it already, so thankfully I don't have to deal with it now. I gave H thanksgiving this year, but I get christmas eve/christmas morning, he has christmas day, I have easter. just something I came up with, and figure next year we will switch. will be hard to not have them christmas eve/christmas morning, if we switch that part, but I'm going to do everything to make it wonderful still, and thankfully I have a full year to think about that one.

have you guys hammered out something like this? maybe let him have easter instead if you want thankgiving? or maybe give in on thanksgiving, but tell him you want easter?

its going to be hard, but we are going to get thru this, and we are going to carve out new traditions.

(((HUGS)))

take care of yourself.

Last edited by morgan; 11/08/07 08:59 PM.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"

-Mary Anne Radmacher