Since you did the Retro thing - I am concerned about how they say we are rebuilding the M from the foundation and upwards...and two of the three items are love and commitment - two things my H says he does not feel. Are we doomed to fail? I feel he is being very negative about fixing us and have stated such - he agreed to try and be more positive. Can Retro work if he feels nothing for me??? One of my major fears!!!
It's like he expects the love feelings to just turn on or something how do I get the point across that love developes. I said to him when we met you did not love me instantly and he said yes to this but now he know all my baggage...(like he does not have any...) How do I respond to this? He is over analyzing our R and trying to force and answer for himself and I feel this is so counter productive...
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Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
