CL - thanks for checking on me, you seem so calm and precise in your actions/reactions - A model for me to follow!!

Limbo - thanks for your input!

I am still pluggin' along - busy with work this week but we have still been making the effort to dialogue. I feel that H is just touching the surface with his analyzing his feelings but I resisted telling him outright (kinda hinted though so I did backslide a little). I realize he feels what he feels but he has always been good at avoiding the tough issues which is why we are where we are.

So I am still taking it day by day. Trying so hard to remain positive and keep things light - but then he says things feel "forced" so I am not sure really what he expects...

At least tomorrow if FRIDAY!!!

Football banquet tonight for S(10) - kids and H are off tomorrow bums me out I have to go to work!

HB


Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10
8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth
2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home
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