CL - thanks for checking on me, you seem so calm and precise in your actions/reactions - A model for me to follow!!
Limbo - thanks for your input!
I am still pluggin' along - busy with work this week but we have still been making the effort to dialogue. I feel that H is just touching the surface with his analyzing his feelings but I resisted telling him outright (kinda hinted though so I did backslide a little). I realize he feels what he feels but he has always been good at avoiding the tough issues which is why we are where we are.
So I am still taking it day by day. Trying so hard to remain positive and keep things light - but then he says things feel "forced" so I am not sure really what he expects...
At least tomorrow if FRIDAY!!!
Football banquet tonight for S(10) - kids and H are off tomorrow bums me out I have to go to work!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing