I think how you approach this will make all the difference.

Maybe try something along the lines of we have been apart for x amount of time, and so its a big adjustment for us all, and one of the problems we had before was not taking the other persons needs into account, and so you are finding it difficult adjusting, and maybe we can work together to find better solutions as to where to put everything....something along those lines.

Just take deep breaths and try to relax!


Me - 44
H - 44
M - 19yrs
together - 23yrs
D16
S8
EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07
H still @ home
Recovered!

"Do or do not, there is no try" Yoda