I have trouble understanding why LD women want marriages that are NOT complete. It's like you want to be companions rather then true soulmates. To me soulmates is essentially a relationship that consist of ALL the various types of relationships. That would be lovers, friends, companions, roomates, best friends, etc.. So why would a woman not want her marriage to be complete? It just seems like you all want to be companions, which to me is basically NOT a marriage worth having.
