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If you are aiming for trying to get to admit he is "doing something wrong with JD"... you may be wasting time, and positive energies.


Not that what he's doing is wrong, per se, just that they're not-just-friends, Glass-style. (Maybe I should read that book. Keeping meaning to, anyway...)

This is a recurring theme with him, and not necessarily just about me. He keeps complaining that women "interpret" him wrong, that they "assume" too much is there. It's something he has asked me to help him figure out in the past year or so. To me, this is a prime example of it. Uh, duh, I would think you were dating me, too! Was just thinking that the comparison might put a new perspective on it...wasn't trying to say "You're acting just like your mom." (I know that's a bad idea. ;))

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Getting him to admit that he is 'dating' JD, will be a tough battle. You may want to avoid the negative energy involved in that battle.


Good point. Maybe I should focus on what is/is not dating behavior? And avoid names of people?

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If he repeats himself with the story of "we're not committed to each other, I didnt do anything wrong"...


It just dawned on me...that I may have contributed to this, unintentionally... lol It kept sounding familiar to me. I think I need to apologize to xh. I can recall convos where he'd say, "That's not a problem, since I'm single, right?" Duh. I think my own recent commitment-phobia may have contributed to this one here; I think I may have been trying to convince myself, instead of him.

Anyway. I gave him a quick call a bit ago, while I was on lunch. I asked him if he had a few minutes; he said it had to be quick. I said "I think I figured out how to explain it to you, so no, not quick." He laughed, said no, not quick. So I just said we could chat later. Not a weird convo; he sounded curious. So I'd say he's still open to talking. ;\)

Azhira

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