Why can't I do this....

[cat03]

at this point and do what needs to be done to care for her.
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oh please! big BS. She made her bed she'll have to lay on it. Do not come to her rescue.

Huge MLCer if I've seen one, all the outbursts, confusion, anger. It seems you are the one who had to leave the home right? you've given in enough, she should've left if she wanted a separation, not you. I wouldnt' sign any contract with her (new car) she is one volatile person, you actually were trying to talk with her about helping with the car and she wouldnt' let you. She needs to learn what it is to be separated, do give her what you have to for child support, the rest lays on her hands.
Do not come to her rescue nor make things easy for her, if she wants you as a sitter while she goes out partying you shouldn't have to do it.

She is pushing your buttons big time and I give you credit for controlling yourself, refuse to fall into her emotional tornados, if the convo is deteriorating then call a time out, tell her you'll talk later when she calms down, no use talking to a maniac.
I have fallen like that, (regretably) once I get going, even as I see I am wrong there is no stoping, no making sence.

Hope you have a MC scheduled, it should help you both.