When I talked about this with my IC, he said that of the options available (working on M with help of separate MC, W moving out of the house and W moving downstairs to guest room), her preferred option (in-house sep) would be the toughest on our kids. Really stinks, IMO...
Me 52, STBEX 52 D 17, S 12 M 20 years Em Sep since 2002, Phys Sep Sept 2009