Unfortunately, the only way to feel that way is to actually believe it.
You can't make her want to go.. I would begin the process of finding someone else who might want to go. This will do several things:
1. Keep your mind off of her where it should be. 2. Boost you PMA 3. Prepare you for the worst 4. Show her that you are serious about moving on
As for the ring.. that is a personal decision for you to make. I took mine off. I'm prepared to move on. It's just where I am. By wearing the ring, you are telling others you are still married and not available.
Is that how you feel?
If so, then keep it on.
If not.. take it off.
Mine is, ironically, in the set of wine goblets that her father gave us for our wedding.
Yeah, I know I cant make her go. I am just worried about not being able to find someone go with me and then taking a loss on all the money we spent for everything. But I will try to find someone but If I cant, I hope she can go.
My mind is off of her for the most part, I do catch myself thinking about her, i bet that is normal. My PMA is on the rise. I am prepairing for the worst right now and I am ready to move on. The biggest thing I am dealing with is the ring. Leave it on, take it off. If I take it off, I think that I gave up and that's it but then again maybe I have to take it off to find myself again. I am leaning on taking it off but I just cant right now...
