Update: After the last post he called me, whispering as he was sneakinging in a call to me. He said he called to apologize, and did it numerous times. I started crying of course and said there is nothing I would want more than to have our family together for thanksgiving and that I could cancel previous plans to have my b over. He said ok, do that then. He also said something about xmas - D8 had called him crying on Sun during her breakdown that she wanted him to sleep over on xmas eve so he would be there in the am. He said he figured with both holidays that it would be more normal for the kids sake. I thanked him for the apologies. Perhaps there is something human in there after all. I just don't see it enough.
Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9 Separated 90 days 6/28/05 H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now H Filed for D 7/08
