Last thread locked. Even though i have nothing to report right now i thought i would start a new one.

My H's dad is not doing well at all in the nursing home and continues to want to come home. We are not able to have 24 hour care for him so that is unable to happen. I think he wants to come home to die and feel for him being there. I think this is a big stressor for H in his journey but, he doesn't talk about it.

H is trudging along. I think that he probobly still feels diconnected as he hasn't said anything to the contrary. When the timing and circumstance is right i will broach the suject.

I am trying to do my best at the Act As If and it seems to be working.
Spending a lot of time at the gym since it gets dark earlier and i can't hunt when i get home from work.

JAK

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez