I need support

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I need some advice. Just got a call at lunch from H. He found out I invited my brother he doesn't get along with to Thanksgiving at my house. I had already told him I would be cooking and having the kids. Apparently he "assumed" that meant him as well. Let me clarify that I never invited him. I told him that he is the one who wants everything separate, not me, so I was just going along with it. He said fine, he would do something else. Just as well he said, I would probably glare at him over the turkey he said. I called him afterwards and left a message that I could change plans w/my brother because there is nothing more I would like then to have t-giving with my "family" on his voicemail. He had also said that if I had them for TG that he had them for xmas. I said no, I figured he would have them xmas eve therefore I would have xmas day. I have no family and his celebrates on the eve. What do y'all think?

I also want to tell him that he has to stop calling me at work with these issues, I will be upset all the rest of the day now about this and it will screw me up for working. I can't take this!

I had therapy on Fri Cat FYI. My goal of course would be to save my marriage but he has already said several times that it is over so I have no hope at this point. Guess you guys think that is wrong. Sorry. Had my support group last night as well. Called the kids afterwards and H answers and acts like he wants to be nice and talk. Last thing I want to do. I just can't take this stuff!