Just being aware of change needed in my book still makes you an A.
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[/quote] She slept elsewhere last night, so I'm having to process the thoughts/feelings associated with that. What's different about the pattern is that she leaves notes for me. [quote]
I feel here is where ACT AS IF comes in. She is leaving notes which is a positive. Maybe she is staying with girl friend or at a hotel by herself when she feels overwhelmed. This is a good way to look at it. The notes though are definitaly a move forward.
On the dance, I suggest to be her friend and take it from there. It will come naturally if you let it and you will know if she is not happy and can change you plan then.
Happy dancing tonight Cl.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
