I see, Kevin, she is totally alien now, if you can worked it so the kids are there, I know it is very tough to maintain a long distance relationship with your kids, I live 3 hours away from the nearest one.
Quote: EMAIL today from XW No, I do not want to talk to you about anything that is going on in my life because it is none of your business. No I do not want to go out to dinner with you. I do not feel that I want to be friends. I want to get through S18 graduation and then we will not have to see each other until one gets married. email from XW, married 27 yrs, Seperated 6/2001, Divorce 08/2002. We have 3 kids, and she does not want to be friends, after 2 years you think she would have let her anger go .
Okay Kevin, what do you think my reply should be, she has not paid our credit cards since March. (that she max out in 1 year) She is making 36K a year, as you can see she does want to talk, and the reason why, is because she can't control her spending, and has no defense to present. So I have to be the bad guy and cancel the cards. It is killing my credit. I left the cards open to help her and this is how I get repayed.
