Well, I am in Atlanta working right now. W has been back and forth with me a little and with the kids a little over the last few weeks. She is still back and forth about our marriage. She ismoving down to be with me this weekend. I am flying back tonight to get the uhaul and load up our things.
Things have been difficult. Dealing with my family, and my W, I feel like I am in the middle right now. I cant stand my family. They are greedy. The are out for whatever they can get, and I always seem to be the one getting screwed in the middle.
W has been back and forth a lot. Especially since she went home and had internet access again. Same old behavior of chating and such. I hope things get better between us when we get settled here in Georgia, Because I am so tired and exhausted right now. I quit wearing my wedding ring. Mainly because I have lost so much weight that it is loose on me.
I love my w, but dammit its time to commit or leave for good. I can see her moving here as her commitment. I can see that she does love me. She even tells me that she cant handle the thought of me with another woman. She doesnt even like to go shopping without me. So I know she loves me, Its just going to be a long hard road to recovery.
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
Well I am through.. She is back to her same old ways. She has been talking to someone that lives near our new home in Georgia. I caught her about to go out on a date with this man last night. I told her I am through. I am moving out. I am filing for divorce. To hell with her. I am a good looking kind hearted man and I deserve better than to be treated this way.
She told me last night " Cant you tell I am not happy". Well hello you cant use me for your happiness or dishappiness. You have to be happy with yourself before you can happy with our marriage. I have stood by her and supported her as much as I can. I can no longer stand by and be an innocent bystander watching this train wreck of her life happen, I am walking away. I am done. Thanks for your advice, I do appreciate it. Maybe if she could have listened to the advice she got We might be in a different place now. If she wants me back she had better get off her butt and start proving she wants to save our marriage. Because I am not taking her back until she can prove that this is what she wants. I have taken her back 3 times now unconditionally only to have her crush me yet again. I am through..
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
I see, Kevin, she is totally alien now, if you can worked it so the kids are there, I know it is very tough to maintain a long distance relationship with your kids, I live 3 hours away from the nearest one.
Quote: EMAIL today from XW No, I do not want to talk to you about anything that is going on in my life because it is none of your business. No I do not want to go out to dinner with you. I do not feel that I want to be friends. I want to get through S18 graduation and then we will not have to see each other until one gets married. email from XW, married 27 yrs, Seperated 6/2001, Divorce 08/2002. We have 3 kids, and she does not want to be friends, after 2 years you think she would have let her anger go .
Okay Kevin, what do you think my reply should be, she has not paid our credit cards since March. (that she max out in 1 year) She is making 36K a year, as you can see she does want to talk, and the reason why, is because she can't control her spending, and has no defense to present. So I have to be the bad guy and cancel the cards. It is killing my credit. I left the cards open to help her and this is how I get repayed.
Poe..... If you are allready divorced. Cancel the cards. I got into credit trouble and it takes years to get out of. Dont let her out of control behavior hurt your credit. If she makes that much money she can afford to do it without your credit cards. She needs a dose of real life. Reality is a bitch when you are living in a dream world with some else financing their dream world. Move on with your life with you and your kids. Go on a vacation and dont even tell her your plans, just let the kids know.
Its her loss for leaving. Show her whats she gave up. A strong man that is worth having. Not a sniveling blob of emotions. Stand up and be a man cut her off......
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
I also told her that night that if she left to go on her date to never come back because I would never take her back again. She stayed. Yesterday when I got home from work. She was wearing her rings. She sat by me and actually showed me compassion. Maybe she needed me to stand up and be strong about the situation. To stand up and tell her that I am not going to take it anymore. Who knows. I wil see if she keeps it up or if the alien comes back soon. Kids are comming down this weekend. I am glad We both miss them. I just dont understand her. I wish I could...
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
