CVA - Figuring out What's Next

[Not Much Left]

Hey WAW and Puddle, thanks for the thoughts / comments.
I talked to him briefly, he did not want to discuss around his brothers or Sister. I will tonight when I put him to bed. I think my W, being a woman (no offense) has a hard time understanding boys as hard as she actually does try. Boys get in fights, period, full stop as I used to say to guys in IBanking. However, something else is going on here and only a Dad I think can get to him and help him understand why what he did is wrong, he hears his mom but...this is why having 2 parents is so crucial. I had NO female role model (no mom) and as a result, did not really understnad women's needs / moods whatever when I got married. It affects you, no questions.

Gonna take the high road no matter what she does / does not do. Only thing I know how to do despite my history of overreacting, it was always done with honesty and no long-term agenda to be cruel. So now it is the same attitude with a different way of showing it on the outside.

Thanks again
C