is not about feelings, it is about MAKING the concious decision to make this M work, if you are waiting for emotions to came back it isn't going to happen."
I agree wholeheartingly with AUD. Somewhere along civilization's path, we got this strange idea that everything is directed by our emotions and every decision needs to be made by that directive. Some I guess could wave a finger at the media but I think more so it might be laziness. At least for myself. I often have to remind myself that any decision SOLELY made by emotion has about a 98% chance of being a wrong one. I guess I can consider it toddler thinking. "if it's sweet it must be good"
Good to hear that maybe some of your H "brain cells" have been nudged and hopefully that path of resolution is being paved...I think you are both luck to have found the correct M SAGE to guide you....peace