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jar, enjoy. You certainly deserve it. \:\)

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Jar, totally forgot to tell you about my love/hate relationship with the book Not Just Friends. Its soooo hard to read, I kept nodding my head and agreeing with everything in it. It felt good that someone understood BUT it made me realize just how much trouble we are in.

I don't regret reading it though.

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Yeah... I've just started. It's definitely a love hate book.

Glad you had a nice day!!

Called D's and they were at OM's house. \:\(

W did call later to say she was on her way home and wanted to talk about me watching D's tomorrow. I let it roll to VM. Watching movies with friends!!

I call her back on the way home and she is acting very strange. I wonder if she has anothe beau? I asked if she had a visitor and she gave me the "I know she's lying" response.

One is bad enough, but if she is entertaining multiple guys.. I don't know what would happen.



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Originally Posted By: jarhead
Yeah... I've just started. It's definitely a love hate book.


I've read the book, but skipped the first half. Couldn't get through it as it was too painful. Thought the last half had lots of great info.

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One is bad enough, but if she is entertaining multiple guys.. I don't know what would happen.


I had that nagging feeling today. Not sure if it is just paranoia or my all to accurate gut feeling.


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Originally Posted By: jarhead
That's where she doesn't get it.. it's the promises you break not the gifts you buy them or how much take them to do things. It's the promises you will never.. never forget.


Some lyrics from Everclear's 'Wonderful'

"Promises mean everything when you're little
And the worlds so big"

Love the song, but now that I know all the lyrics, it chokes me up everytime I hear it.


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The nagging feeling is here too. \:\(

And how funny hope! I read the first part of the book, but skimmed the second part because we are nowhere near working things out! lol

jar, you know, our sitches are similar in that OW and H got together with all our kids. Its soo nice and easy to bond, talk, and flirt with your kids when they are easily entertained with the OP's kids. Its just gross. \:\( \:\( \:\(

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Yeah... that's what bothers me. I don't know what's going on. I have these horrible images of the cuddling in the corner while the kids are running around like maniacs.

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I hated the book not just friends. It's the first time I have actually thrown a book across a room at a wall - it made me so mad!!!!

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hey Tal, I could use your insight since we have some of the same issues.


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Good morning jar, hope its a good day.

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