i feel your pain. God knows I've felt many the same feelings for a while now. Ironically, last year (after my wife returned from first separation) I often questioned myself as to why I bothered badgering her to come back - same old problems, etc, etc,... This time around I'm not badgering or anything.. actually took my wedding ring off as well (though that hurts somewhat). I do realize this time though that a lot of the hurt and pain I feel is my own. I don't feel like much of a success as I've been struggling a lot with my business... now I have decisions to make in terms of work and location and I'm having a hell of a time getting off my a** and making one either way. Gotta take care of ourselves first, right!
