I just realized your kids have to go back and forth, I guess that's why it is harder (my H came to the house, kids always stayed home) If son talked about when is daddy coming home I'd just say that it might take a long time, that his dad didnt' feel well and that he needed time away on his own.
Right or wrong ========== No, you must choose, either do what's detrimental or what could help in putting your M together. Of course, if you are way too angry then the best thing to do is to minimize contact, until you calm down, don't let anger overcome you. Take time to cool down but do ask yourself later what are your goals, what do you want to accomplish. Being angry will also affect your kids, they can see right through us, we just dont' think so. Please to go see a T on your own to help you cope.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
