Good morning morgan. Your version of hibernating is ok. Keeping warm in your house, snuggling with cute kids, reading, watching TV...those things are good. Hiding under your covers for days, countless hours wandering the house...those aren't so good. Nothing wrong with staying home when you feel like it. Especially when H has the kids, no better time to be alone (and not feel guilty about it!), and ponder, think, reflect.