My point is, the more free you allow yourself to be, them more easy it will come to you. This might mean faking it"... well not faking IT, but faking feeling like you want to have sex. Then your H will get into it and it might start snowballing from there... in a good way.
I'm sure I'm not telling you anything you dno't already know... it's just been my experience.
PS, You may not be telling me anything I don't know, but I soooo need the reminder.
I am really back to my baseline LD self. I thought going off the AD would help, and it does help in that I have the capacity now to O, but it is still a fight to keep a level of spontaneous desire going. My Life has been very busy now; I am doing a lot of multi-tasking, and it's easy for me to let the sex ball drop, so to speak. The past few nites I have been issuing pre-emptive strikes to my H as I climb into bed...not a very sexy thing to do. Tonight I will keep my mouth shut and go with the flow.
Thanks again, PS, for posting here. It is so necessary for me to come back to my thread and keep an eye on the ball ( take that any way you want)!
