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[LuvMyHusband]

good morning H, Saffie. Please share what book you are referring to? I haven't heard from H since yesterday's texts. I never responded to his. I would like to run my plan by the both of you. My C and I came up with it yesterday.

I will be polite but cool. Act AS IF. If he asks about the money, I will say I understand but this is the decision I have had to make. If he says he needs money, I will sympathetically state he may need to consider getting a job. If he starts getting angry, I will politely say I need to go.

If he calls about seeing the kids, I am to say, well, we may need to come up with a visitation agreement. If he wants to come home, I am to politely say I don't think that would be a good idea at this time considering the circumstances.

The C wants him to get the idea that until he starts making some changes that his home life is cut off from him. That he is not going to have both and that he needs to examine himself. If I don't fight with him and am polite he will have to start looking at himself.