I guess my biggest piece of advice that I have learned through this is take care of yourself, figure out what you really want, utilize your support group (this helps you get happy), and GET A LIFE. Once you do that and show you can survive, you are looked at much differently.
That is SUCH a huge turnaround from where you were when we started "talking" - good for you!!!
Thread #10 22 year M, MLC, Piecing since 1/07 Goal: Live with confidence & enthusiasm!