I agree, when I read about your H, I think that he still doesn't trust himself fully, as with mine, and so wount committ with his words fully yet. But his actions tell maybe something alittle different, he is making an effort, and even if he doesn't think so, he has committed himself to this process! So its a start!!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!