Do you love your children more than your spouse, even before the bomb? Or is it vice-versa?
I have always loved my children more than my H - they need me more. My H has always loved me more than my children as he expects to spend the rest of his life with me whereas one day they will leave. I expect my priority may change as the kids get older. It's a different kind of love anyway.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength