OT - good points about denial and avoidance. I think that's the kind of "enmeshment" H and I have, and I have.. in my case anyway, I'd totally agree with your thought there. Different symptoms. Donna sorry to hijack!
I wondered the same as OT - why the new and increased contact? (or are you just sharing it here more)? Seems it may be making things harder for you?
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread