Choc, it is Genuine interest. BB thinks anyone that fools around should be history, men or woman. BB is on your side BTW and used to say that once a spouse wanders, they are not worth staying with.
I think BB has one way of talking and another way of acting IRL.
About point proving, yes BB has verbal points but I don't see her willing to be a real person in any of the R's posted here on the SSM forum. It is a lot easier to have an opinion/point than to live it.