I am being patient I can just feel her pulling away again. And I was right. She told me today that she just couldnt try to work on our marriage. She told me why cant you just understand that it wasnt meant to be. Well it used to be, it can be again. She has a lot of issues that she needs to work on before she can work on our R. I told her that I know she needs to work on herself first, before she can work on our R. I told her I will be there for her anytime she needs to talk. I will stand by and support her to,while she works through these issues. I know its her decision. I respect that. I have even told her its her decision. But I cant give up on us again. I have to have my hope that things will work. If I dont I will move on again before its too late again. She said that she decided to work on our R because of the fear of what other people have told her will come true. Money and revolving men and such. Well fear is a good motivator, not to metion the fact that I am a good provider for her and our children. Not that that is a reason to stay.
I have changed so much in the last few months, and she has really noticed, but I am a diifferent man than the man she fell out of love with. I am the man that she originally fell into love with. I feel that if she cut off contact completely from om. then she would not feel so torn between M and om. Give it 6 months with no contact with om and working on R. then if there is still no love there then I would conceed to here. At least make a legitimate attempt to reconcile. please
Honesty, sincerity, tenderness and trust. A little less time for the rest of the world, And more for the two of us. Kisses each mornin, I love yous at night, Just like it used to be.
