I assume if you are going shopping, there would be time for some sort of meal. Play it by ear.
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However, I only want her if she changes too. I can't talk to her about what I need from her now, as I feel that will only make her defensive.
I wouldn't worry about this. Just go and have a good time. Remember the Cindi Lauper song - Girls Just Want To Have Fun. No expectation. Just go. Have fun. Develop a silly approach. Women love shopping with me because I make them laugh. Don't think. Turn off the brain. It will only screw you up.