CVA - Figuring out What's Next

[Not Much Left]

Hey Folks
H, you locked my thread!

Just sent W a long email explaining that I would like to discuss the D petition with her and see if she wants to see my C as we had discussed last Fri.

Also disclosed to her any $s that were going out the door at the moement so she does not freak out and start racking up legal fees to track all this.

We will see what she says.

In any event, she is almost beyond polite right now, I guess I am sensing a huge amount of relief from her which is to be expected.

Hope all of you are doing well, especially you Puddle in those, you know, "undergarments!" How is that for flirting!

[new_attitude]

Hi CVA,

The email sounds good. I hope she starts being honest with you and actually talking to you about things. You deserve it!

[Puddle]

Hey CVA,

I'll look forward to hearing how W responds to the email. Is she actually talking to you about this stuff now? If so, that's a big, positive change.

Man, I've really got myself in a pickle with undergarment talk! Can't spend all my (limited) flirting on you folks, though. I'm thinking of it as practice.

And yes, they're quite nice.

Take care.

[Not Much Left]

Hey NA and Puddle
She really is not talking. I expect the email will allow her to think about what I want to do and what is best, it was completely neutral from a R perspective, just that we needed to talk about the pts to save $s at the end of the day, make it more amicable and what is best for our kids in terms of seeing my C.

Puddle, next questions on the undies are going to be tough, be prepared! or "pull your big girl panties on and deal with it!"

C

[Puddle]

She really is not talking.

I wouldn't be too surprised if she starts talking again soon. At least I sure hope she does---can't rely on the lawyer forever.

it was completely neutral from a R perspective, just that we needed to talk about the pts to save $s at the end of the day, make it more amicable and what is best for our kids in terms of seeing my C.

That all sounds good. Did you set up a time or ask for one in the email for you two to sit down?

Puddle, next questions on the undies are going to be tough, be prepared! or "pull your big girl panties on and deal with it!"

Ha, bring it!

Take care.

[Not Much Left]

Hey puddle
No, no time asked for by me. I figure at this pt the only way we are going to make progress is if she at least has the balls to respond with a time that works for her.

Called the house to talk to the kids, went fine except S7. Got in a freakin physical fight at school. NOTHING LIKE THIS HAS EVER HAPPENED BEFORE. Gee, honey, don't you think he is acting out what is going on???? I did not ask this of course and it would not occur to her this would be an function of a divorce. Dumbass.....

C

[Handful of Rain]

CVA, as you know I too have a S7, and have seen first hand his acting out, so I would say your S7, seems to be doing that as well. The only advice that I can give on the subject is keep telling him that you love him, and maybe see about some IC, for not just him, but for all your kids. They are really going to need it, now that the papers have been filed.

As I have said, kids are not fine with D, like the world would want us to believe, it takes it's toll, and why wouldn't it? their whole world is being turned upside down, and who the heck would be OK with that? When I hear that nonsense, it makes me so irate! Being a child of D, I know that is a big lie! Take care.

[Not Much Left]

Thanks Rain

[Not Much Left]

BTW, call my cell if the rage wont go away.

[waw1978]

Hey NA and Puddle

Puddle, next questions on the undies are going to be tough, be prepared! or "pull your big girl panties on and deal with it!"

C

I prefer the "Pull up your stockings you Nancy" as my Dad would put it!