I agree with LO, Not Just Friends will open your eyes big time, not only to what your wife has been through, but how you found yourself in such a place, somewhere you never intended to be. Hope it helps.
HELP!!!! What do I do now??? My mom has been talking to my W and maintaining a dialogue as part of her support network. My W wrote me today and told me she would still come out over T-day to my parents house with our kids. She said, "I am coming out so you can see the kids and they can see you, not so I can reconcile." This was very hard for me to read.
I don't know how to respond. Why would she offer to come out knowing how tense it will be for her and I and my family? I am happy that she is so gracious, but her family is only 5 hours away, she could stay there and come down for a day? Why volunteer to come to my families house for 5 days? Is this positive? Is she rubbing it in my face? I am scared to see her because I love her and our children so much, but how stressful will this be? Should I say yes? Should I line up a counselor?? Help!!!!!!!!!!!
