"You have amazed me with your strength and grace over the last 5 months. Thank you for working so hard on [y]our M."
is it cool if I say that instead???
Absolutely. Thank you VERY much for noticing my hard work!
Quote: i really like what you write, it validates Mat and helps me see the bigger picture
This is one of the reasons that I am so grateful for these boards...we all have a common theme (in a troubled M), and one can always find someone in a similar sitch/role but the wonderous thing is when we can find and appreciate someone coming at it from the "other" side. You have helped me too!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.