........ 2) H used up everything he had. 3) Now he needs someone to take care of him and pay his bills. .............. Nothing has been fixed. That means getting a job and paying his own bills before he comes home. That means the "happy list" should be the minimum for him to return.
IMP - I agree nothing has been fixed. He hasn't yet told me what he plans to do about the bipolar disorder. I gave him 6 months to figure it out.
I do not think he has used up everything he had and that he needs me to pay the bills. He still has money left to attend school. He just doesn't tell me where it's @ or exactly how much it is.
He did have a part time job as an intern in a restaurant in order to get a recommendation for school @ CIA. He plans to get another part-time job here for the same purpose. He does plan to @ least help me with the apartment bills, but it's the big custom house bill that I am worried about.
Yes, I agree, the "happy list" should be the minimum for him to return. Perhaps that is why he quickly agreed to do everything on the list.
Thanks for your input.
Deb
Joy and Sorrow...when one sits alone with you at your board, remember the other is asleep upon your bed. ~Kahlil Gibran
Me: 46 H: 45 Married: 5.0+ years Bomb: May 17, 2006 0 living children, 2 babies in heaven 1 dog, 2 cats
