What is reasonable and what is not?

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He should be back in a few hours. I have spent the entire day with my thinking back where I am constantly suspicious of him and don't believe him. Why can't I go with the good things he has said and done rather than look at all the crappy things?

I want him to be the same man that he was when he left a week ago. He was back to the husband I married. I am worried sick he will come back the alien again.