Look at all the dates of the people posting to you, how long they have been registered. This ain't no overnight process. The point of it all is to begin changing what you want to change, have a plan for the change, and find a schedule for change you are comfortable with.
The only deadlines are the ones you create, and that may not be a good way to start. Give yourself time, your M, your WAS, the whole world ....
Let go and step away. Relax. Breath deep and give yourself permission to go slow. Folks here don't rush and we don't expect others to. This is a long and slow process. If it is worth doing at all, it is worth doing right and that will take time.
