This is just a thought, but don't know what more harm it could do. If there happen to be just the right time (b/c timing is evrything!) and you felt she would be in a receptive mood, then you might try to express how this has opened your eyes to how wrong you have been and how badly you would like a chance to prove to her that you want to change.....and that you ARE going to change with or without her...but hope that it would be WITH her. If that it just worked around to where you could get that said in the conversation, it could be part of the the LRT. Then she could see that GAL is all part of the new changes you are making.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
