HB,
I had a chance to review your thread. It's tough living in the mystery of not knowing which way your M is headed. Your H is present in body, but his mind is confused.

You seem unwavering in your commitment, but the stress sometimes derails you (as it does all of us). I'll stay up on your thread, and help when I can.

Let's hope your H gives the M an honest effort. His participation in the marital retreat is a good sign.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching