just a quickie, we are knocking on nicely with our new home, it is all so peaceful and quiet and looking good, we intend moving on the 16th november, so we will be in and sorted for christmas. On the other side of the fence xh has now put this place on the market, the for sale sign is in the garden, he is the talk of the village, he actually thinks I am going to help him sell it, that is so he doesn't have to step through the door again and face what he has done. when we go the telephone number has to change as we will be out of area, so xh won't have phone contact, won't know our address or anything, so therefore he won't be able to contact son for xmas, not that he would want to as he hasn't contacted him for 7 months. I do wonder what goes on in his head when any thoughts of his son enter, how can he just shut his head off from the boy he was so close to, it all beats me. Anyhow after our move it will be hard work indeed, so xh will have got what he wanted and that is to be left alone with his money and his new wife, wonder how long it will last then when he hasn't got us to blame for his unhappiness.
That's a good question Mandy, how long will it go? I don't have an answer for you, but I have a hunch that at the end of the day he will be all by himself.
