I have read your sitch for the last few weeks and never really posted - but what do YOU want??? You seem so generous and giving and I am sorry but your W seems so so selfish - this may be the alien. I feel for you - please try and let her know your needs too...I know you stand up for your writing sessions but other than that she seems to get to control everything.
I hope I have not been out of line - you seem to deserve so so much more!!! Have you thought about communicating this to her?
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Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing