Sorry I've been awol this weekend -- just riding the rollercoaster One minute H. is toasting my "magnificance" and an hour later he's not speaking to me because I said "are you all right?" to him (I think I've mentioned before that questions don't go well with him -- got the half stony stare yesterday when I asked him what he did during the afternoon when I was out....the "all right" question seems judging, controlling, interpreting, whatever, I guess)
Gotta say, I'm not thrilled that ANGRY-H has resurfaced. I actually love when he tells me that he's angry or upset with me about something (since that's not usual for him) but the tacit "I'm pissed off at you for something" thing I could do without. Far too reminiscent of his behavior during the throes of A -- in fact, if I were a betting woman, I'd say that ow has resurfaced in one way or another. But, I'm not and don't feel like spending any time in that tunnel anyway.
I promise to check in on all you guys but I won't really have time to post until tomorrow AM.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
One minute H. is toasting my "magnificance" and an hour later he's not speaking to me because I said "are you all right?" to him (I think I've mentioned before that questions don't go well with him -- got the half stony stare yesterday when I asked him what he did during the afternoon when I was out....the "all right" question seems judging, controlling, interpreting, whatever, I guess)
and don't feel like spending any time in that tunnel anyway.
