He has also admitted that, a lot of it was, he just needed to grow up.
Action speaks louder than words. Recognizing the issue is the first step but he has to take action and just do it. It doesn't do you or him any good if he just says he needs to grow up every time you raise the issue.
At some point in life he has to come out of hiding behind his "crisis" shield and face the world. I'm not saying he doesn't have issues to deal with. Just hopefully it doesn't become a habit of him using that as an excuse for everything that he doesn't want to face.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
Recognizing the issue is the first step but he has to take action and just do it. It doesn't do you or him any good if he just says he needs to grow up every time you raise the issue. 
