Help me thru this sitch

[Pudmuddle]

Good thoughts cherrisher. As you can see it is very hard for me to not let my emotions creep in to convo. I need to get the 'we's' into the convo and not the 'I'. that is hard for me especially on the spur of the moment talks.

If H brings this up again tonight, i may just pirate some of your words. Thanks for being there. {{{CHERRISHHER}}}

The problem is though is that I think my H does think he is in a long term R with OW. He has seen her off and on every 3-4 mos for the last 2 years...I'm not exactly sure how just romps in the hay are considered a relationship...