H. just called to tell me that he's going to the bball game next week (Thursday). Cool. He's going with the same social group that used to include ow. Also, the next night he's hanging out with them too.
OK. So...could he at least hint, intimate, blurt out outright, etc. whether or not she's going to be there? Early after finding out about the A. I put my foot down and so no more to him hanging out with her in that group. That made things pretty awkward -- can't just tell the group that you're not going because you've had an A with one of the other members of the group....ow never bowed out of any of the social events (and actually expressed dismay when she wasn't invited to something!) so H. has had to make excuses at the last minute.
I THINK she's not part of the group anymore. I don't know. H. would know. Couldn't he tell me? Couldn't he just freaking bring it up? Couldn't he bluntly say "ow is not invited" or "here are the people who are going" or a jillion other things?
Bad DB'ing to actually give a rat's a$$ I suppose.
Sage
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