It seems that way. They like to keep it a roller coaster. But I am kinda tired of the ride. My H came over yesterday to pick up his trailer and called and wanted to go for coffee. He was real weird acting. Finally I said I didn't have anything to do with SIL calling you and I just thought it was wrong how you handled it. He said I thought they were still friends and said haven't been for a long time no matter what OW says.
Then he was Mr Friendly....He so much wants out so I am doing the 180 I should have done a long time ago and trying very hard to move on with my life. I am dog sitting my sons roommates little little dog that he had bought for a girlfriend and then they broke up...My H said why would you want a little dog and he will go all over the house. I said he was house trained and was thinking you can't tell me if I want one or not. You don't live here. I giggled to myself...He doesn't want to be married but he thinks I still need to do it his way...HAHAHAH!!!!! Where do they get off on that one. I guess we learn to adjust with what we have been dealt and make the best of it. I feel that you and I and so many others have come a long way since we found DB.
Have a great Day.
PS. Husband I think you are probably right. And maybe all along I got a long with him way to much instead of being more controlling. He always said I controlled him and I believe he doesn't realize what control really is. But with her I have heard that she will be come the Queen of control unless she has changed for him....
