Help me thru this sitch

[Pudmuddle]

So here is what H responded with to my above email:

I don't feel that I need to justify this to Brennen at all. It is what it is. He is a smart kid and can make up his own mind but I don't want to lie to him as i have lied to you in the past. Granted I have not told him everything about the relationship, but I do answer his questions (he has asked some) as best as I can and as honesty as I can. I know it's hard for you to think I'm not constantly bashing you in front of Brennen or trying to win him over. I am not doing that at!!! ,as it would not be in Brennen best interest.

Taking him to the avs game would completely skew his judgment, I have thought about it and agree that its not a good idea, it would set a bad president, with that said he will meet her some time, be it now or later it will happen. I know from my own thought and concerns that anybody I or you introduce to Brennen would have positive effect on him.

let's continue this later tonight

as for this being an attack i dont see it that way . i would have in the past, but i have grown and realized a person can have opinions and feeling and express them to me and i need not to take it personally

It still bothers me that he insists he will meet her, but I cannot control that. If he is growing as a person, then why doesn't he show that to me. wah, wah, wah, blah, blah, blah.