Now I'm worried that she'll resent me doing it now instead of in the past when she thought it might make a difference. Oh well, I can't change how she takes it, all I can do is take care of myself and pray for the best results.
That's exactly right. You can't control how she chooses to react to your changes, and these are for your own good.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
