I think once he sees what she is saying in those emails he may understand your actions better. You know he was worried about what she was going to try and do. You do not know how much of what he is saying to her he actually means and how much of it is damage limitation. I am sure my H might have promised the OW in our situation the world to try and keep her sweet and away from causing more harm to me - how do you not know that this is not what your H is doing.

the other thing is we all have reason to snoop after what has been done to us but you seem to be the queen of doing this and of getting hurt by it.

I don't want to see you hurt but you just keep on repeating the same mistakes. how are you going to break the cycle?

Saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength