I am sorry you are here. I am not an expert but as someone new here as well I had some thoughts.
Did you address what were the problems that separated you in the first place? What were the effects of counseling?
From your threads I get the sense that when you moved back in August you'd be piecing. If you were piecing you'd probably had to work on the affection you feel for each other, not withdrawal it, unless one of you was not really piecing. You said you moved and he said it was too late, he did not love you anymore, so how come he was OK with you moving? Was he accepting it by revenge or something?
It seem you have been working hard on DB. But from what I read I think that you have to work on communication. The people here recommended 3 great books that helped me a lot and I think they could be helpful to you: Not Just Friends, Break Free From the Affair and The 5 love languages.
Don't panic, piecing takes time and it's hard, this I can say from my current learning curve, but the good news is you have 2 months to turn things around.
