jar- The high school reference is spot on. In fact, a few months ago, I stopped referring to OM as OM, and began referring to him as her "boyfriend." This includes on my thread and in discussions with her (I know she hates that).
The way I see it, she is behaving exactly like she did when she was 15: sneaking out of the house, having sex with somebody who is not her husband, lying about it, covering it up... tell me when to stop. Oh yes, totally drunk on the infatuation of the affair. Don't want to forget that one...
And yes, we need to wait for our wives to grow up. It will be a pity if we "grow away " before that happens...
